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A Portrait of a Christian Psychologist: Paul C. Vitz



        Martijn Lindt (Netherlands)                                 Answer by Paul Vitz
        Question to Paul Vitz                                       The question posed by Martijn Lindt is a good

        “Hatred and Christian                                       and very interesting one. He asks what is to be

        Identity”                                                   done with a person’s anger and hatred and sug-
                                                                    gests that it be redirected toward evil, possibly
                                                                    even the evil that the hurtful person has caused.
        Dear Paul,                                                  After  all,  anger  and  hatred  are  psychological
        Of  course  I  agree                                        realities  and  presumably  something  must  be
        completely  with  your                                      done with them.  In addition, Jesus experienced
        offering    Christian                                       anger and hatred of evil. In the spiritual realm
        love  as  an  alternati-                                    of  good  and  evil  it  is  acceptable  to  maintain
        ve  for  hatred.  ‘…the                                     what many psychologists call “splitting”. Evil is
        love  of  Jesus  is  the                                    all bad and we don’t pray for demons or the “evil
        central  fact  enabling                                     one.”
        us  to  love  another….                                     Thus, in simple form my answer is “yes”, Lindt
        Our  identity  is  for-                                     is correct.
        med  through  love.’     Martijn Lindt                      But, I do have some qualifications.
        Beautiful.  You  posed   (Netherlands),   em.               1.  Hatred  of  genuine  evil  is  perfectly  proper.
        the psychological pro-   associate  professor  at           Injustice  must  be  opposed.  Harmful  behavior
        blem of lack of identi-  University of Amster-              must  be  strongly  rejected.  But,  hatred  of  evil
        ty, raised by rejecting   dam,  lecturer  at  Bo-           must  be  kept  from  leaking  back  toward  our
        hatred of our enemies.   nifatius  Theological              “enemy”,  toward  a  person.  However  familiar
        ‘Compassion and hel-     Institute                          and difficult, we are to hate the sin but not the
        ping     others...more                                      sinner.
        rewarding than pathetic self-pity.’  Yes.                   2. One important point about loving our ene-
        What  about  the  possibility  of  redirecting  the         mies  and  praying  for  them  is  that  the  actual
        anger and the hatred? Redirecting it back to its            intensity of our anger and hatred is common-
        proper object, back to the adequate functioning             ly reduced though such love and prayers. This
        of these passions, away from the person and to-             means  that  we  can  manage  our  hatred  better
        ward the evil deed, the evil motive, the evil way?          and avoid having it come back in a way, often in-
        Might this not be a good addition? Should we                direct or unconscious,
        not look to Jesus also as a model of anger and              that  is  again  placed
        hatred, notwithstanding the difference between              on  the  person  whose
        Him and us? Take for example Jesus’ anger in                behavior initiated our
        Mk  3:35.  In  the  Eastern  Orthodox  tradition            hatred.
        of the Philokalia there is a beautiful adage for            In my article, I ignored
        dealing with anger: Drawing two swords: that                hatred of evil for “pre-
        of love for the other person and that of hatred             sent purposes” becau-
        for evil. Two swords, which means redirecting               se  I  wanted  to  focus
        anger and also tempering it.                                on the major issue of
        But that necessitates reincorporating anger and             interpersonal  hatred.
        hatred of evil into your argument, which you                Lindt, however, makes
        removed at the beginning of your article. Why               it clear that I probably   Paul  Vitz,  Ph.D.
        the removal? ‘For the present purpose,’ you say,            should  have  included   Professor  and  Seni-
        you restricted hatred to the hatred of the other            his concern about ha-   or  Scholar,  Institute
        person. Isn’t the present purpose served by this            ting  evil.  If  I  have  an   for  the  Psychological
        addition of redirected anger? ‘As a psychologist.’          opportunity  to  do  so   Sciences,  Arlington,
        Are  not  anger  and  hatred  psychological  data,          in  the  future,  I  will   Virginia;   Professor
        whatever their object, not just the interperso-             include  his  valuable   Emeritus,  New  York
        nal?                                                        point.                  University.


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