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Category Ques�on Evalua�on Self-Reflec�on (Reflec�on)
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Cat1 9 Back then, I filled out this Agape Ques�onnaire
Being for the 17 for self-reflec�on in order to iden�fy my
other 25 strengths and weaknesses as my prerequisites
for loving.
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Sum
My strengths, according to the results, seemed to
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lie in experiencing myself as loved and being
10 fundamentally in favour of other people.
Cat 2
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Helping
26 My weakness, on the other hand, was clearly
34 that I made no �me available for love, no �me
Sum that loving might cost me.
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I was happy that my strength was to experience
Cat 3 11 myself as loved.
Loving 19
selflessly 27 I looked back with wonder and gra�tude on a
35 decades-long process of healing and change that
Sum had turned a disorientated and socially anxious
4 young person into a humorous adult who was
12 open to other people. It's a miracle for me when
Cat 4 I think back to my shame about the fact that I
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Self-denial
28 even exist and remember my self-rejec�on.
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This self-affirma�on encourages me not to avoid
Sum
loving, but to expect more, to encounter love in
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return and not rejec�on. I am loved by others
13 much more than I think!
Cat 5 21
Giving �me
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Yes, if it weren't for this lack of �me!
Sum
6 Love is the highest thing! This is what the New
Cat 6 14 Testament tells us. And I do not have enough
Pro-feelings in 22 �me for that! Can you believe that?
rela�onships 30
I imagine I am not the only one who feels this
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way.
Sum
7 Others will find their strengths and limita�ons in
Cat 7 15 other aspects of loving.
Se�ng boun- 23
daries 31 We know that in following Jesus, nothing should
39 happen without love.
Sum
"Pursue love." 1 Co 14:1 [1]
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Cat 8 16 We know this, we want to, and we should be
Love as a 24 succeeding even be�er with all these years of
chance hap-
pening 32 discipleship.
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