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20. I am prepared to forego my own wishes if I sense that the other
person needs me in par�cular.
21. I like to take �me for another person.

22. I am always willing to make someone else happy with small gi�s.
23. If someone is harming themselves, I feel free to tell them that.
24. Nothing can separate me from the love of God.
25. It is difficult for me to persuade a person to do something that
might harm them.
26. I am happy to become one with someone else's cause and then
support them ac�vely.
27. I am willing to do things for others without gaining anything per-
sonally.

28. I am prepared to endure long-term suffering for the sake of
others.
29. Time-consuming rela�onships are not too strenuous for me.

30. I enjoy helping others.
31. If something becomes too much for me, I can say no firmly.
32. Love is a gi� from God that I can only ask for and receive, but not
possess.
33. I find people interes�ng, no ma�er who they are.
34. When another person confides in me, I support them in overco-
ming their problems.
35. I am able to show genuine interest in another person's prefe-
rences, even if I am not interested in these things myself.

36. I am prepared to love another person even if I have to give up my
own plans.
37. I am prepared to give my �me for the other person by taking the
ini�a�ve to make contact.
38. I enjoy seeing friends again.
39. I have learnt to set boundaries.

40. Since entering into a living rela�onship with God, I have been able
to love people I used to find unappealing.

Please evaluate the ques�onnaire yourself by no�ng the number you have �cked to the le� of the ques�on number on the
following evalua�on sheet.
Then calculate the total in each of the 8 categories.

• Where is this highest, where is it lowest?
• Concentrate mainly on your good categories:
• What are the two highest?
• How can I get even be�er at this?

And then make a point of thinking about these "answers" from �me to �me. What becomes clear to you?

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