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Mark Toh (Singapore)
             Comment to


             “Attachment Style and
             the Acculturation                                          Mark  Toh,


             Process of                                                 Consultant
             Cross-Cultural                                             C linic a l
                                                                        Psycholo-

             Workers“                                                   gist,  Ph.D.
                                                                        (Clinical
                                                                        Psych), MA (Theo), BA (Hons) Psych
                                                                        Mark  has  extensive  experience  in
                                                                        treating  troubled  children  and  their
              I can only note that while I appreciated Laurie‘s         families, as well as personality disor-
             review of the attachment literature and how it             ders.
             could  apply  within  the  acculturation  process,         He has worked in a variety of clinical
             in the end when missionaries show up as ca-                settings such as psychiatric hospitals,
             sualties, we have to treat them as needed. Tho-            mental health clinics, day-treatment
             se  who  were  blessed  with  secure  attachment           centres,  and  specialised  clinics.  Dr
             have probably more tools to recover faster with.           Mark Toh has lectured at the Singa-
             They can also be a resource if they are married            pore Bible College, and also consults
             or have children. But each person has a break-             at the Ministry of Family and Social
             down point. Sometimes the ability to cope is li-           Development (MSF).
             mited by the circumstances they are in where
             they have little control, eg. where service hap-
             pens in a war zone like a former cross-cultural
             worker I helped who served in Afghanistan du-
             ring the war & in refugee camps.
             Similarly,  those  coming  from  secure  attach-
             ment (a benefit offered by emotionally healthier
             parents) have a preventative resource. It could
             be  useful  to  know  what  circumstances  limit
             their usefulness. There are a myriad of difficul-
             ties missionaries can face on the field, eg. the
             suicide of a MK, that may go beyond conven-
             tional coping. It would be useful to identify the
             list of circumstances that healthy or unhealthy
             missionaries are vulnerable to. This would fa-
             cilitate  resiliency  training  for  all  missionaries
             regardless of their backgrounds.

















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