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              Themes           Male      Females     Total     how to address on another”, “open up to each
                              partici-   partici-              other”, “openness and loving the wife”. In terms
                               pants      pants                of communication and facilitation of roles, par-
         Empowerment and         10          8        18       ticipants mentioned that the programme help
             enrichment                                        them with “open communication” and “sharing
                                                               God’s word”.
          Teaching and in-       10         11        21       Slightly less than half (48%) felt that the pro-
             formation                                         gramme  should  include  additional  aspects
             Advice and          3           7        10       such as question-answer session, games as ice
              guidance                                         breakers,  issues  relating  to  the  upbringing  of
         Improvement and         2           1         3       children, finance issues and intimacy.
         self-understanding                                    In  response  to  whether  the  programme  was
            Deliverance          1           1         3       worthwhile,  participants  mentioned  that  they
           Motivation or         1           0         1       found the programme “relevant and informa-
           encouragement                                       tive”, addressing “outstanding issues”, empowe-
               Prayer            0           1         1       ring to speak freely, “enriching”, “reviving and
                                                               refreshing”.
             Excitement          1           0         1       Finally most (90%) of the participants indicated
          No expectations        2           2         4       that they would attend similar programmes in

             n=62                                              the future. The few who were reserved about at-
             Table 2: Expressed expectations of the programme  tending similar programmes in the future poin-
                                                               ted out that they needed time to practice what
                                                               they learnt first (7%), or they felt that counsel-
             Table  3  below  indicates  that  the  majority  of   ling was not needed (3%).
             the participants (87%) confirmed that the pro-
             gramme fully met their expectations while the     Discussion and recommendations
             minority (7%) felt that their expectations were   The findings of the study indicated that the Bi-
             partly met.                                       blically based marriage enrichment programme
                                                               was experienced by the majority of the parti-
                                                               cipants as the “best”. This is supported by Tan
                 Level met      Frequency     Percentage       (1990); Worthington (1993); and Plante (2008)

                  Highly             1            2            who reported that religious clients prefer and
                   Fully            54            87           are  comfortable  when  their  religious  beliefs
                   Partly            4            7            are  considered  in  therapy.  Most  of  the  coup-
                                                               les  further  found  the  programme  beneficial.
                No response          3            4            As most of the participants were in the 16 and
             n=62                                              above years of marriage, this could be a con-
             Table 3: Expressed level of met expectations      firmation of what Bader (1984) meant that the
                                                               enrichment programmes tend to attract coup-
                                                               les with twenty and more in marriage. At the
             The majority (93%) of the participants reported   same time the finding could indicate a need for
             that the programme was beneficial to them and     Biblically-based  programmes  that  could  faci-
             that  they  would  not  want  anything  excluded   litate couples communication to decide on how
             from it. Participants commented that they be-     love  and  respect  could  be  expressed  in  their
             nefited in terms of teachings on the principles   relationship.  Only  few  couples  felt  that  they
             of love and respect, as well as communication     will not attend similar programmes in the fu-
             and facilitation of roles. Regarding teachings on   ture. The finding could be due to the few coup-
             the principles of love and respect participants   les considering the programme as therapeutic
             expressed that the programme taught them “on      and therefore not relevant to them (van Acker,


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