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Church Traditions for a Christian Psychology



             The Soul and the Emotions                         we love has been lost. When angry, something
             There is one feature of the soul that I think is   we love is being stolen or kept from us.
             important to the present dispersion of Christi-   Scripture uses other words to substitute for love.
             an counselors—one that extends from secular       What these words have in common is that they
             to integrationists to biblical and to reactionary.   extend all the way to our divine allegiances. For
             The matter concerns the nature of the human       example,  the  questions  that  speak  to  the  core
             soul and its connection to our emotions.          of our being include, Whom do you love (Dt.
             Most Christian counseling theories, which are     6:5, 1 John 2:15)? Whom do you trust (Jer. 17:5-
             implicitly tripartite, place emotions in the psy-  8)? Whom (or what) do you worship (2 Kings
             chological third of the person, where spiritual   17:36)? Whom will you serve (Mt. 6:24)? Whom
             and physical comprise the other two-thirds. The   do you obey (1 John 3:10)? Where is your tre-
             dilemma is that Scripture has very little access   asure (Mt. 6:21)? To whom do you belong (John
             to  this  psychological  sector  because  Scriptu-  8:44)? All these roads eventually lead to our re-
             re seems to focus on the spiritual rather than    lationship with God. Do we love what he loves?
             the psychological. This means that Scripture is   Do we love him?
             marginalized in discussions about modern pro-
             blems because most problems that come to pro-     Our emotions usually proceed from our heart,
             fessional counselors usually concern disordered   are given shape by our body, reflect the quality
             or unruly emotions. Even more, since our emo-     of our relationships, bear the etchings of both
             tions identify us as distinct individuals - since   the goodness and the meaninglessness of work,
             they are us - they are the de facto core of our   provide  a  peek  into  how  we  fare  in  spiritual
             humanity. When we miss how someone really         battle, and express the lies or truth we believe
             feels, we miss that person and our counseling     about God. They, indeed, are essential windows
             will be less helpful. If Scripture glosses over the-  into our soul.
             se things, then it is of little value for Christian
             psychology.                                       One qualification. We could say that emotions
             As  an  alternative  to  the  tripartite  approach,  I   usually reflect what is happening in our souls.
             suggest that the soul is folded into our duality   Occasionally  emotions  can  be  unpredictable
             and  is  the  repository  for  our  emotions.  More   assaults that come from disordered bodies and
             specifically,  the  soul  has  depth.  Our  emoti-  brains.
             ons are on the surface and most obvious to us.    Depression, for example, might be the language
             Further  in  and  less  obvious  is  how  we  make   of the soul. It might say that something loved
             moral decisions. All that we would call good or   is now lost, life has lost meaning and purpose,
             bad comes from the soul. One step further, at     something desired will never be possessed. But
             the very center of our soul, is our ever-present   depression  could  also  say,  “something  is  not
             connection to our Creator and Father. We live     right in my body or brain.” The brain, of its own
             coram deo whether we love God or deny that        accord, is capable of pushing our emotions into
             he exists.                                        the darkness that we call depression.
             Our  emotions,  then,  are  part  of  this  religious
             consortium.  They  express  devotion.  They  are   Strong emotions are a time to ask, “What might
             swirling  passions,  desires,  grief,  dreams  and   my soul really be saying? What do I live for that
             hopes. Our emotions flag those things that are    I do not have?” But we might not get a clear
             dearest  to  us  (e.g.,  Ps.  25:17,  45:1).  Emotions   answer  to  that  question.  Sometimes  depressi-
             identify those people, things and goals that we   on is simply physical suffering. It says, “I feel
             love, that we loathe, that we fear, that bring pain,   as though I am numb inside.” Either way—and
             that anger us and that shame us.                  this  is  important—difficult  emotions  are  al-
             We could say that the soul or heart is about what   ways a time to get help and pray for endurance
             we love. When happy, we are in possession of      in faith. They are suffering and hardship, and
             something we love. When anxious, something        God’s comfort and our faith are essential at tho-
             we love is at risk. When despondent, something    se times.



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