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Shannon Wolf (USA)
Shannon Wolf
Therapeutic Goals in (USA) Ph.D.,
Licensed
Pro-
Christian Counseling fessional Coun-
selor, Associate
Professor, Ma-
Case Study ster of Arts in
Anna, a 75 year-old petite woman, was full of Counseling, Dal-
energy and smiled almost constantly. She and las Baptist Uni-
her husband had recently celebrated their 57th versity.
wedding anniversary and the couple had three shannonw@dbu.edu
adult daughters, six grandchildren, and two Former article by Shannon you can see
great-grandchildren. When she spoke of her here: http://emcapp.ignis.de/5/#/88
family, her smile grew and her love for them
was evident. Anna also described having a deep
faith and some might have suggested that she for her and stayed close by her side, attempting
was a biblical scholar for she knew the Bible well to offer comfort. When Anna asked to see a the-
and had memorized much of its contents. Anna rapist, they were relieved. Once before, Anna
quietly stated the past 57 years were “wonder- had attempted counseling to resolve her issu-
ful”. She said that she has had a “good life.” es surrounding her formative years before but
Anna made an appointment to see a therapist the experience was not a positive one and Anna
following an upsetting phone call from one of ended counseling prematurely. This time, she
her seven brothers. As Anna described the call, wanted a Christian counselor – one who would
she began to tearfully recount a childhood that allow her to include her faith as she explored
was very different from the family she and her the horrors of her childhood.
husband created. Her childhood was extreme-
ly violent. Anna’s body carried numerous scars Locating the Client
of this violence. Some scars could not be seen. In his book, Counsel of Heaven on Earth (Jones,
Anna’s oldest brother, Henry, was cruel and see- 2006), Dr. Ian Jones likened the assessment
med to have focused much of his brutality on process to a forest. His metaphor included an
his younger sister. He frequently beat her and unknown forest with the patient lost within its
on several occasions, he attempted to kill her. boarders. Jones took this metaphor from Gene-
From choking her until someone stopped him, sis 3. Following the fall of man, Adam and Eve
breaking her bones, cutting her with a knife and hid themselves from the Lord. God responded
even raping her, his violence knew no bounds. by asking the couple “Where are you?” (Gen.
Anna’s other brothers learned to fight back, but 3:9). For Jones, the therapist locating the pati-
Anna, being so much smaller, learned to be a ent within their forest also asks this question.
peacemaker and when that didn’t work, to run. Location includes the questions of “Where are
Anna’s parents told her to fight back but didn’t you in relationship to others?” “Where are you
step in to stop the abuse. Anna attributed much in relationship to yourself?” and “Where are
of her parents’ neglect to an absence of any kind you in relationship to God?”
of faith. In fact, Anna’s parents denied that there
was a God and taught their children that rules The Problem
were made to be broken. In Jones’ model, the wise therapist takes careful
It was after an upsetting phone call from Henry note of the terrain, observing areas of danger,
that Anna began to relive the abuse. For weeks, and mapping a path from where the patient is
she stopped eating, frequently cried, was an- to where they need to be with the first step in
xious, and began having nightmares. Her hus- the therapeutic process being determining and
band and adult children were very concerned fully understanding the problem that causes the
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