Page 193 - EMCAPP-Journal No. 7
P. 193

Forum                                                                            “Guidance

                                                                                       Through the
             Peter Milnes & Genevieve Milnes (Australia)                                Holy Spirit

                                                                                        During the

             Let me report a personal experience of “guidance” received during coun-    Counseling
             seling that did not bring blessings:
                                                                                        or Therapy
                Me: I feel that I am in a dark place.
                Therapist: I have a word from the Holy Spirit about you.I see you wal-     Session:
                king into a dark place because of the demon of pride that you carry.  Blessings and
                What do you think about that? Is there anything you need to confess?
                Me: Yes, um, I can certainly see the dark place because that’s why I have   Problems”
                come here.And the pride, yes I can see that I probably have a little of
                that too.

             Next session (a week later):


                Therapist: What did you think about last session?
                Me: Well I thought about it.
                Therapist: What sort of pride do you think it could be?
                Me: I don’t know.
                Therapist: Well let’s ask for guidance of the Holy Spirit so that you can
                be freed from the demon of pride …
                 Me: Well, not right now … (I never went back).


             While the first session may have had spiritual value, the second session
             did not.In spite of the loaded language, I had been open to exploration
             of the “pride I carried” being a source of darkness and thought about it
             during the following week.However, the second session revealed that, no
             matter what my therapist intended, she was starting down a pathway that
             placed her revelations as a “voice of God” which I was expected to pas-
             sively accept.In spite of the difficulties that I was facing at the time, this
             second session led me to seek counseling elsewhere because my therapist   Dr Peter Milnes (PhD,
             had already begun crossing into the classic “eight methods of thought    M.Ed.Admin, B.Div.,B.
             reform” outlined by Lifton :                                             Educ.)  is  an  Adjunct
                                      1
                                                                                      Associate  Professor  at
             •  milieu control (my therapist allowed no other explanation in the      the School of Law and
                session, the problem was spiritual and I needed the Holy Spirit to    Justice at Edith Cowan
                liberate me from the demon of pride.);                                University,  Perth,  We-
             •  mystical manipulation (my therapist heard from God and not me –       stern Australia as well
                I was expected to accept this as “truth”.);                           as a therapist speciali-
             •  demand of purity (in the “black-and-white world” of my therapist, I   zing  in  Transactional
                was either under bondage to pride and darkness or liberated by her    Analysis at Psychology
                “guidance”.);                                                         Australia.  Peter  is  an
             •  cult of confession (my therapist encouraged me to confess elements    ordained minister who
                                                                                      served  for  eight  years
                of “pride” in my life during counselling so that I could be cleansed.   in  Brazil  as  a  director
                These confessions could be used later.);                              of a cross-cultural stu-
             •  sacred science (my therapist held the gnosis [knowledge of the        dies  centre  and  semi-
                truth] so that her claims/insights were as true as the Divine);       nary lecturer.


             1 Robert J. Lifton (1969) Thought Reform and the Psychology of Totalism, New York:
             W. W. Norton & Co. 1969.

                                                           192
   188   189   190   191   192   193   194   195   196   197   198