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The Work and Thinking of David Benner



             be attentive to both psychological and spiritual   that feels good but which blocks effective the-
             dynamics, utilizing the presenting problem as     rapy. And finally, when appropriate, and with
             a focus for help as well as an opportunity for    informed consent, spiritually sensitive therapy
             psychospiritual growth, and seeking to nurture    may utilize relevant spiritual interventions that
             a response of spirit to Spirit.                   possess demonstrated clinical efficacy with si-
                                                               milar problems and people.
             Four goals guide spiritually sensitive therapy:   This describes the overall framework of the the-
             1.  To help the client attend to their spiritual   rapy I have provided and taught for many years.
                longings  and  become  aware  of  how  they    I do not offer it as a critique of Christian coun-
                have been responding, or may wish to re-       seling or psychotherapy but as an alternate way
                spond, to them                                 of providing a spiritual approach to therapy.
             2.  If desired, to help the client explore the im-                      . . .
                pact  of  their  religious  and  spiritual  back-
                ground on functioning                          In closing I want to offer my gratitude to those
             3.  If desired, to help the client explore the im-  who have responded to my work in this issue.
                pact of psychological problems on their spi-   I am appreciative of Mike Sheldon’s comments
                ritual functioning                             on the excerpt included from my book, Soul-
             4.  While doing all this, to do everything else   ful Spirituality, and to Wolfram Soldan for his
                that any other well trained psychotherapist    thoughtful interaction with the selection from
                would do.                                      Care of Souls. One of things he mentioned de-
                                                               serves special attention – the importance of a
             The process of spiritually sensitive therapy starts   clearer understanding of listening within the-
             by  building  a  spiritually  open  and  safe  thera-  rapeutic  dialogue.  I  appreciated  his  reference
             peutic alliance. This includes informed consent,   to listening to “our human and heavenly part-
             avoiding disclosure of details of personal spiri-  ners in communication.” Spiritual directors so-
             tuality until asked and restraint even when it is   metimes speak of listening with one ear to the
             appropriate to answer such questions, commu-      directee (client) and one ear to the Spirit. The
             nicating an openness to spiritual concerns and    point seems to be the same and is important.
             an absence of a coercive agenda, dealing with     But it is also important that we think carefully
             religious  differences  that  exist  in  a  respectful   about how a therapist actually does this in the
             manner,  and  referring  the  client  to  someone   midst of all the other things to which we need
             else whenever you are unable to do any of the-    to attend – our own thoughts, our associations
             se things. It encourages the therapist to begin   to our thoughts as well as to the unconscious
             with a broadly ecumenical spiritual perspective   elements  of  our  interaction,  the  words  and
             (as opposed to a narrower denominational one)     non-verbal communications of the client, and
             and to express willingness to discuss anything    the movement of the Spirit of God within our
             that  the  client  considers  relevant  and  drawn   spirit. Therapeutic listening is not, therefore a
             from the spiritual or religious dimension of his   simple matter. I judge it to be the hardest and
             or her life.                                      yet at the same time most important part of the
             As  these  things  are  addressed  it  is  important   therapist’s  contribution  to  psychotherapeutic
             to watch for the bias of only seeing the best in   process. From my point of view there has not
             one’s own tradition and the worst in others. It   been enough attention to this topic and I appre-
             is also important to watch for the presence of    ciate Wolfram highlighting it.
             the Spirit both within sessions and in the life of   Finally, I also want to thank Werner May for
             the client, always remaining particularly atten-  his excellent work in pulling this issue together,
             tive to what Rudolf Otto described as numinous    and to the European Movement for Christian
             experiences. While it is appropriate at times to   Anthropology, Psychology and Psychotherapy.
             adopt a more explicitly Christian perspective it   The dialogue you, who are part of this move-
             is important to be slow to align in a more ex-    ment  are  having  is  impressive  and  important
             plicitly denominational way. The reason for this   and I wish you well in it. It has been my great
             caution is the danger of a collusive mis-alliance   honour to be a part of it.
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