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Trauma Recovery Training at a Seminary? Introducing Global Trauma Recovery Institute



             “Emilia” would not speak of her experience in     disrupts the false narratives that life is over af-
             Srebrencia, Bosnia during a massacre (ibid, pp    ter a trauma. Counselors make note of signs of
             113-120).                                         God’s protection, resilience, or growth despite
                                                               harm experienced. These evidences do not ne-
               It was a year before Emilia broached the sub-   gate losses but serve to remind the victim that
               ject of Srebrenica, out of the blue, as if it were   trauma and loss do not have the final word on
               the  most  natural  thing  in  the  world.  “I’m   their life.
               from Srebrenica. You know I lost my father,
               my husband, brother, and uncle,” she said, as
               if she had told him many times before. “Yes,”   Case Study
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               he said. He waited several moments for her      The following case  provides a few examples of
               to continue. But she did not go on. She just    how a counselor uses the above guidelines to
               looked at him, more intently than she ever      manage the trauma telling within a counseling
               had before. “You already know what happe-       setting.
               ned,” she said finally.  And he did. Everyone   Patience,  a  23  year  old  woman,  is  a  gradua-
               in Bosnia knew….Again he waited for her to      te student at an urban university campus. She
               continue. But she sat back in her chair and     was raped three months ago after leaving her
               folded her hands in her lap. … “I am from       friend’s  house  late  one  evening.  She  was  not
               Srebrenica.”  That  was  the  story,  her  whole
               story, and her sense of relief was palpable. (p.   able  to  identify  her  attacker.  Her  mother,  an
               117-118)                                        immigrant  from  an  African  country  told  her
                                                               not to tell anyone about the rape for fear Pa-
             Counselors do well to remember that there are a   tience would be harmed by her own relatives
             myriad of ways to communicate the trauma sto-     who would now view her as impure. Patience
             ry and its meaning, with or without words. The    suffers  with  recurrent  nightmares,  avoids  her
             use of dance or movement, painting, pictures,     boyfriend, and has begun refusing to leave her
             music and other forms of symbolic expression      home to go to class or other activities. Her fa-
             may provide richer vehicles to process trauma     ther, unaware of the rape, accuses her of being
             stories.                                          lazy and wasting precious family resources. A
                                                               friend advises Patience of a free and confidenti-

             Identify New Perspectives. The ultimate goal      al rape counseling service and convinces her to
             of therapy is as much developing new meanings     make an appointment. The counselor provided
             in life as it is a reduction of trauma symptoms.   Patience  with  some  information  about  com-
             As a client develops new perspectives, the coun-  mon experiences after rape and typical goals for
             selor provides reflections so as to emphasize the   therapy but does not push her to tell her sto-
             learnings. With each new perspective, the trau-   ry. After developing a level of comfort with her
             ma story may be told again from that new point    counselor, Patience chooses to tell the story of
             of view. For example, a client’s first accounting   her rape and of her fear that she is no longer ca-
             of child sexual abuse may include guilt for dis-  pable of a career or marriage. Key symptoms of
             rupting the family when the abuse was disco-      her distress include chronic feelings of guilt for
             vered.  As  the  client  perceives  that  it  was  the   being out the evening of her rape. In addition,
             perpetrator of the abuse who caused the family    she wonders if God is punishing for rejecting
             to dissolve, re-telling the story from that new   her father’s advice to marry instead of pursuing
             perspective  may  afford  the  client  additional   further education.
             healing. Counselors note these new meanings       During early sessions, the counselor notes that
             and explore with the client how to create new     Patience seems to “leave” sessions while talking.
             reminders  (“Ebenezers”  or  stones  of  remem-   Her voice trails off as she seems to be remembe-
             brance) to help solidify the proper telling of the   ring or seeing things not in the office.
             trauma story (see 1 Sam 7:12).
             Besides seeing their story in light of the larger
             story of God’s care for his children, victims of
             trauma also benefit from finding evidence that    7  This case study is fictional, designed only to illustrate
                                                               the guidelines presented.


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